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[Sender name]
[Sender address]
[date]
[Recipient name]
[Recipient address]
Dear [Recipient first name],
Confirmation of your recent resignation
I am writing following our discussion on [date], during which you stated that you were resigning from your position as [job title].
We recognise that the discussion took place in difficult and/or emotional circumstances, and we do not want to make assumptions about your intentions or proceed with your resignation without first giving you an opportunity to reflect and confirm your position.
We therefore ask you to consider carefully whether you genuinely intend to resign from your employment with [Company Name].
Your opportunity to clarify
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An employee may sometimes say that they are resigning during an argument, following upsetting news or while experiencing a particularly emotional situation, only to reconsider afterwards. This letter provides a measured way for an employer to respond without immediately treating an apparently impulsive statement as a final resignation.
The letter acknowledges what the employee said or communicated while making clear that the employer wants to ensure there is no misunderstanding about their intention. This is particularly useful where the resignation was made verbally or in circumstances where the employee appeared highly distressed or emotional.
The employee is given a reasonable opportunity to reflect and confirm whether they genuinely intend to resign. The approach should be supportive rather than coercive, particularly where the circumstances suggest that the employee may not have intended to make a final decision.
The employer can invite the employee to discuss what happened and whether there is an underlying workplace issue that needs to be addressed. This may identify a grievance, management issue, relationship problem or other concern that could potentially be resolved.
Once the employee has confirmed their position, the employer can either proceed with the resignation and normal leaving arrangements or discuss appropriate steps if the employee wishes to remain. The letter creates a clear record of the interim position and avoids unnecessary assumptions.
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The Resignation Acceptance Letter formally acknowledges an employee's resignation and confirms the arrangements for the end of their employment.
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Not necessarily. There is no automatic rule that an emotional resignation is either valid or invalid. The circumstances and the employee's actual intention are important, so where there is genuine uncertainty it is sensible to give the employee an opportunity to clarify their position.
An employee can ask to withdraw their resignation, but the employer does not have to accept the withdrawal. Acas recommends giving serious consideration to the request, particularly where the employee changed their mind very quickly or their state of mind was affected by another factor. https://www.acas.org.uk/resignation/how-to-resign
There is no universal statutory period specifically for reconsidering an apparent heat of the moment resignation. The employer should allow a reasonable opportunity for the employee to reflect, taking account of the circumstances, while avoiding unnecessary delay or uncertainty.
It is sensible to pause before finalising the resignation if there is genuine uncertainty about whether the employee intended to make a final decision. The employer should allow the situation to settle, speak with the employee and establish whether they genuinely intend to resign.
This may raise a potential constructive dismissal issue, particularly where the employee alleges a serious breach of contract or other serious workplace problem. The employer should take the allegation seriously and consider obtaining appropriate HR or legal advice where necessary. https://www.acas.org.uk/dismissals/constructive-dismissal
AI can generate a generic response to an employee who says they are resigning, but it may encourage an employer to treat the resignation as final without considering the circumstances in which it was made. HRDocBox templates are designed around practical UK HR processes and help employers take a measured approach, giving the employee an opportunity to clarify their intentions while creating a clear record of the steps taken.
It reduced the amount of time we spent debating how to phrase the message. We found the Heat of the moment resignation response letter easy to tailor to the circumstances. The document fitted neatly into the steps we were already following.
How this content is developed and reviewed
The Heat of the moment resignation response letter template is developed using a practical HR methodology that considers current UK employment legislation, ACAS guidance, CIPD good practice and the real-world HR process it supports. Templates and supporting information are regularly reviewed and updated, with additional reviews triggered by significant changes to legislation, guidance or established HR practice, helping ensure each document remains practical, relevant and suitable for UK employers.
Darryl Horn, Chartered HR Director
Darryl is a Chartered HR professional with over 25 years' experience in senior HR and employee relations roles.
He has extensive practical experience of managing resignation HR processes and founded hrdocbox to provide businesses with practical, professionally developed HR resources grounded in UK employment law and best practice.
HRDocBox has been creating practical UK HR documents since 2009.
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